No one is so good that he has no bad in him, and no one is so bad that he has no good in him.
We human beings are a complex lot. Many religious writings and great literary works are based upon the constant struggle between good and evil that goes on inside every one of us. This struggle is as old as mankind itself. ……….Yet, while we recognize our own inner struggles, we are often quick to condemn others and even judge them.
In particular, Human relationships (marriage, family) conflicts should be dealt with these two key factors- Character & Behavior. When we distinguish/ notice these two, will help us to understand any one!
In Character ………..there is commitment, Morals, ethics (self ruled / conscious Wright & Wrong & dos and don’ts), in general believes.
In Behavior …………there is action with time frame, doing things with deliberate intention & motive, driven by emotions and circumstances, most bad behavior comes from insecurity which makes, most criminals………….. are with good character and bad behavior)
Thus, the very reason Character should supersede us to not to fall in bad behavior.
Psychologists tell us that there is no such thing as a bad person; there are only bad behaviors.
Thus, make it a point to look for the good in you — and in others.
Cherish the good character traits and work on the ones …that may need improvement. Like plants in a garden, the character traits that grow strong and fruitful will be those ……that are fed, watered, and weeded regularly.
We shouldn’t prejudge the worth or value of something, by its outward appearance alone. In other words……………. “Don’t’ judge a book by its cover”
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